Know your worth. I know what I bring to the table, so believe me when I say I’m not afraid to eat alone. I’ve slowly come to realise that just because I fancy someone, it doesn’t mean that they are right for me. And it certainly doesn’t mean that I should put up with them treating me poorly and disrespecting me, no matter how much I may like them. You could love someone with all your heart but shouldn’t you love yourself more? Love yourself enough to walk away from anybody who isn’t treating you exactly the way you deserve to be treated. I realise now that yeah, I may really like someone but my feelings for them shouldn’t betray the love I should show for myself. Why should I put up with someone who probably couldn’t care less just because I don’t want to ‘lose’ them? But please, tell me where is the loss if they aren’t treating me right anyway? I’ve only got blessings to gain by walking away. I strongly believe that what’s meant to be will always be, and whatever misses me was never meant for me and vice versa. If someone is meant to be a part of my life then they will be, 100%, whether they stay consistently or we lose contact and our paths cross again in the future. If two people are meant to be together eventually they’ll find their way back, but whatever happens I will no longer allow myself to be disrespected because I am blinded by ‘love’. I deserve the best and nothing less. There’s nothing more important than self love, so from now on I’m putting myself first and only doing whats right for me, and only giving my love to the people who deserve it!
I will never settle for anything less than the best.