Don’t Blame Me, Love Made Me Crazy

If it doesn’t you ain’t doing it right…

YES! This is a reference to Taylor Swift’s ‘Don’t Blame Me’, I’m often inspired by song lyrics, what can I say?

Today I thought I’d share a little more of a lighthearted post and have a giggle at my expense, sharing a couple of stories to do with the silly little ‘extra’ things I’ve done with regards to love, or moreso, breakups.

Last year you may have seen my post talking about how I visited a mediumand I shared my experience with that! Haha, well this year, I think I may have taken it one step tooo far with all the physic stuff. Not that I’m not a believer, but you’ll be stunned with what I’m about to tell you, I’m sure. Is this a case of more money than sense? Maybe.

As I’m sure you’re all aware by now, if I hadn’t rambled on about it enough already, the end of my relationship with August Boy caused me a great deal of sadness. It’s been one of the most emotional times of my life. Out of pure desperation of course I was searching for answers: was cutting all ties the right thing to do, do we have a future together as friends? Those questions and SO many more were running through my head and causing me a ton of anxiety. You know where you can physically feel the stress in your heart? Yeah, that kinda thing.

Anyway, with all these questions soaring through my mind I decided the best thing for me to do was to contact a physic, immediately. So although I booked in an appointment with my local medium for the following week I needed answers STRAIGHT AWAY. I could not wait. So of course, I did the only sensible thing I could think of, I went online. 😉

I found many apps suitable for my situation, guys there are 100 of physic apps out there and I joined a ton. I spent around £10 – £20 on a couple of them, talking to different mediums, most charging around £1.50 a minute for their services. But their guidance was not enough, so I went deeper.

I discovered an app called Kasamba and tried to ignore the prices next to each medium as I picked someone I felt I most resonated with based on their picture, the person I thought would be able to guide me the most. I must have glanced at her rates of course, but I brushed it aside as I signed up to converse with her.

Around 20 minutes of back and forth messaging I decided I was done, or I ran out of credit, I honestly can’t remember how it ended now but it did, and when I logged off the chat you can only imagine my horror when I realised the medium I had just spent 20 minutes speaking to charged $18 a minute! EIGHTEEN DOLLARS PER MINUTE. I immediately did the maths and discovered that what with my first three minutes being free (sign up deals you know), what with the exchange rate this meant I had spent roughly £140 on this reading. One hundred and fourty pounds, I’m shook!

I told a couple of my work girlies and they absolutely howled when they asked me ‘so what did she tell you?’ and I replied ‘that he isn’t the one’ and ‘it’s up to me if I decide to stay friends with him or not’, wow. I spent £140 for that. The girls told me they could have given me that info for free, or better yet I could have paid them £140 to tell me the same thing, ha ha ha.

Shocking. But desperate times call for desperate measures hey?! They sure do.

So, I said I was going to share a couple of stories here today but I think I’m just going to leave it with the one for now. I rambled on looong enough with that one! And it’s enough storytime for one day. 😉

What’s the wildest / silliest thing you’ve ever done with regards love / breakups? I’d love to hear your stories so be sure to let me know in the comments below, please and thank you!

I look forward to hearing your stories,

as always thank you all for reading,

have a great day,

lots of love,




  1. Aww wow!! I cannot believe she charges so much for such cliche and typical advice. Like, what she said is true lol, but your friends are right, all of them could have told you that haha! How on earth does she think she’s so great as to charge that much. On a side note, I’m so sorry you’ve been hurting so much, Jennie. 😦 ❤ I'm glad you could look back on this story with laughter, though. 🙂


  2. Oh my gosh, $18 an hour? That’s ridiculous!! I’ve gone to palm & tarot card readers but the most I’ve paid is probably $10 for the whole reading. I wonder how people get these jobs. 😂


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